我的婆婆是外国人！

Foreigner’s mind is more simple than Chinese and Taiwanese Most of them don't think in complicate way, and they don't like to speak gossip as often as Asia people in general

I lived in UK for a long period before and living in Europe now, I have found that the relationship between mother in law and daughter in law is quite good in Europe

(all of the above is only my personally opinion, I hope the other mama don't mind :)

我的婆婆也是日本人

我想因为版主的妈妈年纪较大

她的婆婆更是一位老奶奶了

所以想法较为传统

我婆婆今年六十二岁

她并不介意我用破烂日文跟她讲话

（不要说丁宁语or敬语了，我连文法都有问题>"<）

反而我讲错了

或是我在自言自语修正日文时

她笑的比我还大声

而且比我老公好一点的地方是

她会纠正我教我正确的日文

让我不会丢脸丢到外面去

"

个性关係吧？！她不介意小细节，不会管我们太多

当然啰～我也尽量尊重她

在婆家都以婆婆说的为準不会反对她的意见

都很乖的被碎碎唸

（唸过就算了反正听不懂居多）

过节过生日会送礼给她

她总是非常高兴的打电话来道谢

平日也会寄些衣物送我们

现在我怀孕

我婆问了我好几次「有没有想要什么？」

我婆婆是婚前对我有疑问

怕我跟邻居的中国老婆一样，拿了钱就跑掉

曾经问我老公「她没问题吗？」

婚后就敞开心胸接纳我，她说过要当我的朋友

她也的确当我的朋友，还曾经听我抱怨老公呢～

（我婆跟大姑都鼓励我抱怨，真是奇怪的家人～^Q^～）

可能因为我们没有住在一起

冲突少很多

结婚三年多的我觉得媳妇不是婆婆带大的

观念想法一定不一样（就算同国人）

先生比我们懂婆婆许多

如果先生能做一个良好的桥樑

双方相处上应都会比较轻鬆

但最好还是住的近就好

不要住在一起啦！

^________^*

(原作者于 2005-07-04 01:14:14 重新编辑过)

我婆婆在我们结婚前已经往生了

所以没有碰过这样的问题

不过从朋友身上我发现国外婆媳问题没有我们想得那样"美好"

呵

只是过招方式不一样

还有一点没有住在一起

当然瓜葛也没有我们那么多

My mother-in-law in an American, and she is very nice to me However, my English is not good, but she understands what I'm trying to say We go out very often such as restaurant, museum, movie She also takes me to outlet shopping center when everytime we go back to USA to visit her (I love shopping very much!) When I was in school, she even helped me to edit my paper (She taught in NYU)

Every cultures has its own advantages and disadvantages Personally I don't think we should prejudge anybody by his or her race or nationality 一样米养百种人 There are good and bad people everywhere (including good and bad mother-in-laws) Fortunetely my mother-in-law is a very nice lady