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I don’t have good relationship with my mother in law (67 years old Chinese woman), we lived together for 2 year ago, but because we have too much quarrel and argue, so that my husband sold out the individual house and bought 2 apartments (hasn't paid all, borrow money from bank), we live separate now Before 3 months ago, my husband’s big brother ask his parents and my husband sold the house, and threat if they don't sold the house, he will not paid the balance of the apartment, (husband’s brother and his parents live together, he paid for the rest of the mortgage now)

Now, my mother in law ask my husband to sold his house for buy another new individual house because she want to live with us again, and promised she will not give me pressure and hard feeling again And my husband beg me to accept her suggestion

This is a nightmare for me, because although the relationship between me and my husband’s mother go back to normal’ now, but she will become autocrat after we live together a period (normal means when we see each other we will send regards to each other and I will go to her house for having dinner with my husband every weekend)

I really don't know what to do now, if I say no’ to my husband, he will think I put him in trouble (he is afraid of his mother), but if I agree with his suggestion, then our marriage life will be mess again In a弟弟ition, my mother in law treat my 8 months child very good’, she always use her own method to take care 宝宝, if she think its ok, then its ok Such like she will give some food which is not suitable to 宝宝 to eat, I asked her to stop, she replied, its ok for her to eat, because she is not a new born 宝宝 already, I have experience’ (eg salt and oil is not good for a 4 months 宝宝, I think most people and mother know that)

So, dear mamas please give me suggestion kindly Thanks I can read Chinese words, but because I don't know how to type Chinese words so that I typed in English, sorry about that You can type in either Chinese or English

Have a nice day! :]